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Advice?

I’ve disconnected with all of my listeners. It’s been a while since any of them have replied. I know that they have lives and problems of their own so it’s understandable why they aren’t online but I just sometimes need some support but I feel like I’m talking to a void. I’m really sorry, I know that this sounds rude and ungrateful. I am truly very grateful for the conversations that I’ve had. What am I supposed to do? I know that this is really my own fault for being so needy.     

I know this is the second time I’ve asked for advice via thread. I’m really sorry.

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User Profile: Ednamius
Ednamius August 21st

@highPlacesareMything1234 hey,you aren't too needy. It's normal to need someone to vent to,and to feel uncomfortable because everyone is gone. I would feel lonely too. It's not your fault,you couldn't have done anything about it. And you're indeed grateful! No need to be sorry,you had to let that out


You also proved that you have a kind heart and respect boundaries by understanding that they may be busy (: 

Have you tried connecting with new listeners,or sending personal requests to the ones you like most? If yes or no,why? 
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Hiii @Ednamius,

First of all: it’s nice to meet you :) Thank you for all your kind words and advice. 💖

No. I haven’t tried connecting with someone new. Even though school is coming up which will probably not be very helpful - although I do adore being at school - I’ve decided it’s probably best. I’ve just been feeling kind of empty recently - not the sad kind - more emotionally numb. Maybe I could connect with a listener sometimes soon/in the future but that would probably be more of an in the moment kind of decision. 

But sometimes it’s hard because there is someone I will miss next year because they will be busy. So I have decided to avoid them - even though they supported me through some hard times last year. I know that probably doesn’t sound the best way to deal with things but I will and I must. I can’t drag them into the mess that is my life again.

Sorry. I realise that last part had nothing to do with talking to listeners at all. 😂

 

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