I messed up

Day 4

I really really messed up. I invalidated her feelings by using them against her. I should have listened more and stopped overthinking. She was mad that I was overthinking and her frustration was valid I can see that now. At the time she was already having a bad day and I put that on her I shouldnt have out that onto her I shoulda just been there for her. She told me she doesnt wanna talk anymore and we will talk tommorow. Im really stressed and I feel rrally bad for what I did.

Being a parent to myself

Hey we are all human we all make mistakes. Don't use the guilt as a way to punish yourself instead use it as a way to lead you to becoming a better person and a better partner to her. Just dont invalidate her feelings, when you eant reassurance ask it when you guys are both stable. Today wasnt the best time to ask for reassurance honestly and thats okay you are learning how to be in a relationship still. Don't beat yourself up to much its gonna be okay you are gonna be okay no matter what.