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I miss hugs

User Profile: Malecfan
Malecfan June 12th

The last person who hugged me was my bosses wife.

It was like, the start of this year and I hadn’t seen her for about 6 months because she’s been opening up her own business. But yeah, she hugged me.

I can’t remember the last time someone hugged me before that.

My family isn’t touchy. My mum hugged me once when I was 17 (I’m 20 now) and I couldn’t tell you a time she did before that.

Idk what my childhood was like, I can’t remember it. I know most touch makes me just uncomfortable now though, unless I know the person well and they’re pre-approved in my head.

I miss being hugged. It’s kinda sad but like, the deep pressure, all encompassing hug.

Me and my ex hugged a lot, always warm, always just it felt big?

To me, maybe it’s just because I don’t do a lot of physical contact. Hugs just feel important, like they can tell you a lot of things.

God I need to sleep more, ha.

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 12th

@Malecfan

That's very nice what you said..

I hope you find some more hugs 🫂 

It's important to get hugs. I love hugs as well..🌲

User Profile: GumballMachine
GumballMachine June 12th

@Malecfan I miss being hugged as well. People tend to feel good when they are hugged consensually. I was hugged by my family recently, but I never really get hugged otherwise. I only got hugs from family because I was finally able to go visit them after several years. I can't recall how many years passed after my last hug before family finally hugged me, but I think it was over 6 years. I don't get enough love, and it is extremely painful.