I tried a therapist who abused me

So my father recommended me a new therapist, ontop of the one i have. The therapist is the worst i had experienced in over 42 years of therapy. She said she wont judge me , and judged me, she said she wont force me/tell me what to do, and did not only did that , but was sending recording messages to my father talking about private things she talked in therapy about me. My mother heard a message the new therapist sent to my father. The message was something like he (so me ) does whatever he wants with his therapist. Long story short the new therapist felt like a correctional institution more than a therapist, felt like too much as if she was selling herself more than trying to help.  My father is an utterly complicated person who like i think is just a waste of time to talk to him about anything since he feels like a robot who does not gets people or anything.