Demisexual Breakup ❤️🩹
Hi there.
My ex and I were dating for the past year and we are both Demi. He broke it off like a week ago saying “I just don’t want to date anyone right now”.. While I don’t want to belittle his emotions, It threw me for a loop, as I was not expecting that at all.
Being Demi, i think personally it hurts that much harder because I’m so emotionally invested and he still wants to be friends. Does anyone have advise to help move on (i know it takes time too) but still.
I think you cannot force anyone, and considering that he wanted to end it no matter what, yess this is difficult and hard for you. I really feel that you should take a break an have me time.
I heard that you cannot stay friends with someone you loved because that way it feels really uncomfortable or there was never love.
I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings just mention that its totally your call because it might hurt you more.
And to move on it is really important to accept that you are not with them, not make hopes, and think of a better n bright future.
Do things you like, hangout with friends, make memories and make things go your way because you dont neend anyone to make you feel happy it just you, a source of happiness and positivity🤗❤️
@Ballerina415
as a fellow demisexual, i can imagine how hard that must be. especially after being together for so long. i would say not hang out with him for a little while until you move on, and then once you do you can go back to being friends. as for how to move on, try to get completely absorbed into something you enjoy, so you don't really have the brain space to think about your ex.
hope this helps!