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LGBTQ+ Community Check-In: Week of Aug 21 - 27

User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener August 21st, 2023

August is starting to wind down, but this coming Friday, Aug 25th marks "Wear it Purple Day” in Australia, though "Wear it Purple" is spreading internationally. This day strives to foster supportive, safe, empowering and inclusive environments for LGBTQ+ young people.

Now to check in!

  • How about making a “check-in sandwich”?

    • “Check-in sandwich”:

      • 1 good thing that happened for you this past week

      • 1 not so good thing you’ve been struggling with &

      • 1 goal/hope/plan for the week to come


  • Will you be “Wearing it Purple” on Friday?

    • Do these types of days help you to feel supported? Why or why not?


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[Image consists of racks of purple clothing]

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User Profile: Plantsaremybestfriends
Plantsaremybestfriends August 21st, 2023

1 good thing that happened for you this past week

One good thing that happened to me this week is I started rereading The Many Half-lived Lives of Sam Sylvester which is one of my favorite books.


1 not so good thing you’ve been struggling with
My joints having been flaring up fairly often and I've been struggling to get around

1 goal/hope/plan for the week to come
I hope to finish 2 books this week


Will you be “Wearing it Purple” on Friday?
I don't own any purple cloths but I might do some purple makeup, soo kinda

Do these types of days help you to feel supported? Why or why not?
I think it's nice to see everyone who participates because you can feel less isolated, especially in more conservative areas.
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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP August 24th, 2023

@Plantsaremybestfriends

Thank you so much for checking in!

That book sounds interesting I may have to add it to my reading list. I'm guessing that's the first book you are hoping to finish this week so if you want to say, what is the second?

As for joint pain and flare ups, that is definitely a struggle! What are things you do to manage when it gets this bad?

I confess, I own a LOT of purple clothing... but purple makeup sounds great too! (I own some of that too, maybe I'll even paint my nails purple!) But you are right, sometimes these days can help remind people they aren't alone! In more conservative areas, as many likely don't even know about it, it can even be a way to subtly send support without having to out yourself.

Again, thank you for checking in, enjoy your week and your reading!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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User Profile: Plantsaremybestfriends
Plantsaremybestfriends August 24th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

The other book is Even if We Break. I finished that one last night and it was really good! When my pain gets bad all I can really do is wait it out but either icing it or using a something warm can help.

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP August 28th, 2023

@Plantsaremybestfriends

I'll have to add that book to my reading list. :)

As for heat/icing when in pain, I can somewhat relate to that, but it sounds like it would be very frustrating and limiting for you when it flares up, hopefully it doesn't happen very often.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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User Profile: LostinTranslation90
LostinTranslation90 August 26th, 2023

1 good thing that happened for you this past week:

I went to the bakery yesterday after an appointment I had in the morning, and I had a really good time! It was a little hard trying to convince myself to step out of my comfort zone but I'm really glad I went!

1 not so good thing you’ve been struggling with:

I really miss one of my old friends :-( A few months ago I texted them to say goodbye and they were so kind about it, and they were such a kind friend to me. I wish I had been a better friend! But I hope lots of good things happen to them, they really deserve it!

1 goal/hope/plan for the week to come:

My college is showcasing all of its student organizations next week, so I'm excited to go and look around! And I'm hoping some items I ordered arrive soon!

Will you be “Wearing it Purple” on Friday?:

I did wear purple today! I wore my favorite purple shirt and purple earrings.

Do these types of days help you to feel supported? Why or why not?:

It felt nice, mostly as a way of supporting others! I'm not sure how aware people are in my area, but it still felt nice to do!

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP August 28th, 2023

@LostinTranslation90

Going to the bakery sounds nice, what do you get when you go to the bakery? Pushing ourselves to step outside of our comfort zone isn't easy but I'm really glad it went well! Although I am sorry to hear about the old friend situation, did something happen that changed your friendship with them?

Student organizations can be fun, I remember I joined the LGBTQ+ group when I started Uni (a long long time ago). I hope you find some great organizations to connect with. (And that you get your ordered items soon!)

Yay for wearing purple! Sometimes it's the small things that can start making big changes, even just knowing ourselves the reason why can be validating and affirming. Sort of claiming our own space to be ourselves.

Thank you for taking the time to check in and share some of your week with us!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜


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User Profile: LostinTranslation90
LostinTranslation90 September 2nd, 2023

@EmotionsListener Thank you! I got a blueberry lemon coffee cake and an iced mocha. It was so good 😊 And for my friend, I think we just grew apart, but I wish I would have valued them more.

Thank you for having this check in! 😊❤

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