What do you wish people talked about more in LGBT intimacy?

Intimacy and sex often come with a lot of unspoken expectations, and one thing I wish people felt more comfortable talking about is the emotional side—how it can be just as vulnerable and complex as the physical side. It’s not all about the energy of a fast-paced, fun experience; sometimes it’s about connection, communication, and feeling safe enough to express your needs without judgment. Opening up about that would make a huge difference.