Gay horny frustration
Excepting my true self and not feeling ashamed of my desires has left me constantly being ***. My urge to run out and have as much sex with different men is driving me crazy. Although I know it's not actually realistic or safe, I am wondering if anyone else found this a problem after coming out and what can be done about it or does it just go away after awhile?
@Abacad
I understand how hard it must have been to come out and to accept this part of you.
It can be scary and exciting at the same time.
Taking the first step can be daunting but also pleasurable and freeing and ultimately it's not surprising that one wants to chase this feeling and release. It wouldn't as you say be helpful or safe to just sleep around. Get out and about and get to know people. Real intimacy comes from knowing the person, respecting the person, being more than just the physical act. Shared experiences and trust. I'm glad you are not happy with who you are and I wish you the best moving forward. Nice to meet you 💕💜
@Amanda84
Thank you for your kind words. I don't want to get carried away and do anything I might regret but on the other hand I feel as if I need to make up for years of denying myself the pleasures I so truly wanted. But being from a very conservative rural place I also feel frustrated that I may not meet any gay men anytime soon.
@Abacad
Even though you've missed out on alot as well say, it's still better to wait for the right person, the wrong or rushed experience would only set you back. I do get it's difficult to meet people in your own area though 🥰
@Amanda84
Good advice thank you 😀
Hey! I'd like to be your friend.