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How did you explore your sexuality?

User Profile: hiisarah
hiisarah December 1st, 2021

I’m still trying to figure out my own sexuality and I was thinking maybe I can go to a lesbian bar to meet some new people. I don’t know anyone who’s lgbtq+ so I don’t really have anyone I can ask or talk to about it and I was hoping maybe hearing some other experiences I can think of how to explore safely and confidently.

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User Profile: Stacey84
Stacey84 December 1st, 2021

Hiya, I came out when I was 24. Didn't realise I liked girls until I developed a massive crush on my sons nursery teacher 🙈 my first kiss was with a childhood friend, the kiss was a mistake but I knew I was lesbian after it lol.

Sorry don't know if that helps 😕

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User Profile: hiisarah
hiisarah OP December 1st, 2021

It does lol, I just want to hear other experiences since I don’t have any personal people I can turn to for any guidance in the community 😊

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User Profile: Stacey84
Stacey84 December 1st, 2021

Well I'm here if you have any questions or need advice.

I came out 13yrs ago

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User Profile: hiisarah
hiisarah OP December 1st, 2021

Thank you! I can offer an ear if you ever need anything as well though I can’t say I’ll be the best for advice. I do have one question though, how do you think I should go about exploring? 😊

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User Profile: Stacey84
Stacey84 December 1st, 2021

I honestly don't know how to answer that.

Is it the physical side you want to experience? For instance a kiss?

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User Profile: Stacey84
Stacey84 December 1st, 2021

My second kiss with a girl was really intense and went all the way but I got emotionally attached because it was my first time.

My best advice is don't rush anything

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User Profile: hiisarah
hiisarah OP December 1st, 2021

ok thank you, I’ll keep that in mind

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User Profile: Stacey84
Stacey84 December 1st, 2021

Explore though, don't hide away and wait for something to happen.

Just meeting other lesbians might help

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