What is virginity??
How can i face being unvalued and worthless because of one mistake i did it three years ago. I was 19 and felt guilty for months.. although that pain and repentance, no one would accept this situation under my community standards
Knowing that you will never be accepted or not good enough is hell on earth
Help me deal with it
Heyy.. from what you said up there I concluded this might be Smth you've done with a partner I guess so here's my opinion.
Your value was never in your sexual worth or your sexual experiences or being a virgin or not .
Your value is in your self worth and you as a person, and being a good human being for yourself and the people around you and working to be the best version of you and someone you're proud of .
You shouldn't feel guilty about Smth like that at all, even if it was a mistake, everything can be fixed without beating yourself up about it.
I totally understand being in a conservative community where no one would accept an action like that outside of marriage and stuff .
But trust me you'll find someone who accepts you the way that you are bc stuff like virginity and the whole "popping the cherry" stupid standards were never something that identifies your value as a person, bc trust me there's more than that.
Keep your head high and prove yourself in your work, school, etc , bc there's nothing to be ashamed of .
We all do mistakes and you need to go easy on yourself and forgive your past actions bc its Smth that has already been done and it'll remain in the past and you'll have to move on and start looking out for yourself instead of worrying about the community standards.
