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Not sure about gender

User Profile: UnknownVariableX
UnknownVariableX November 17th, 2022

I was born male, but I'm not really sure about my gender. I wouldn't say I feel like I'm male, but I don't feel like I'm not.

My assigned sex for me has about the same significance as my blood type. I feel like that disqualifies me from being cis but I don't feel gender dysphoria/euphoria either, so I'm not sure what my gender would be, or if I'm even trans

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User Profile: Skansly
Skansly November 17th, 2022

@UnknownVariableX

Why is it so important ? Does it not matter only when you are in relationship with someone?

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User Profile: UnknownVariableX
UnknownVariableX OP November 18th, 2022

I mostly just like to know myself. It's less "important" than it is a nagging issue.

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User Profile: acecurtis49
acecurtis49 November 17th, 2022

It's completely okay to be confused about and question your gender and where you fit on the gender spectrum. I know many transgender and nonbinary folk who identify as gender apathetic or genderless, you're certainly not alone.

User Profile: adaptiveRiver9052
adaptiveRiver9052 November 21st, 2022

@UnknownVariableX
Being unsure about gender is perfectly natural. Not knowing exactly how your gender defines you is kind of the new norm. We're living in a day and age where gender and sex are not drilled into us at a young age and it creates a healthy environment to explore that. Don't be afraid of labels and just live how you are, if you're not experiencing any gender or body dysphoria/dysmorphia it doesn't exclude you from this space. If you ever want to talk more, I'd be happy to listen!