gender confusion
for awhile now i’ve been questioning where i fall on the gender spectrum and what my pronouns are. i think i want to go by they/them and i think i could be gender fluid but im just not sure.
i was masculinized a lot when i was younger and idk if that made me insecure of my femininity or if i genuinely align with being perceived in a masc way. i’m not super thin either so i’m less likely to pass as anything but feminine. im really confused and i haven’t shared any of this with anyone yet.
@optimisticGrapes1969
Hiii,
Thank you for letting us know about your worries and thanks for your trust on us!
After reading your poster, I want to say: "There is nothing you should worry about!"
Everyone is different, and we shouldn't judge ourselves by other people's standards. Girls can be masculine too, that's fine. I've seen many girls look more handsome than boys in men's clothing. Also, do you know cosplay? When people are cosplaying, many girls will cosplay their favorite male characters, and boys also have their favorite female cosplayers. Whatever your are, you should accept yourself. It's already an amazing thing that we born into this world, so don't care what other people think, just enjoy your life!
If you have any other worries in life, you could also ask your trust ones for some suggestion.
I wish you a good and happy future.
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