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Coming out

User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 June 2nd

Ive had feeling towards guys for a couple months now and really unsure how to tell people that i am gay as it feels right and nervous on there reaction

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 3rd

@wellypen23

Firstly , I'm glad you are happy with your decision 🩷

You don't have to rush to tell everyone until you are absolutely comfortable, in your own time and in your own way.

There are no set limits .

You'll know when it's right!

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User Profile: FriendlyRaven
FriendlyRaven June 4th

@wellypen23

Coming out to people can be for sure terrifying. Even coming to terms on your own can be scary because it can come with a lot of unknown and "what ifs." I'm so proud of you for exploring yourself. Self-discovery can be a lifetime process.

If you don't feel like you're comfortable coming out to anyone yet, that's completely understandable. If you feel like you're not in a safe environment to come out in, again, completely understandable. You don't have to be out to be proud. If you do find the circumstances are right for you and you feel you're ready to take the next big leap to coming out to people, that's amazing! It can come with time, and the timeframe of you coming out can differ from person to person or from situation to situation. It takes an extraordinary amount of strength and bravery to allow yourself to be vulnerable with other people and to let them see into your life.

Just remember, you have the reins here; no one can tell you who you are or what's best for you. Only you can do that.

I'm so happy for you, and I wish you the safest and most amazing experience with everything moving forward :) 

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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP June 9th

Defo hasnt been easy and i think i maybe ready to tell people

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