I’m confused
So I hope someone out there can relate or give me some advice on what it is I’m feeling..
As of recently I’ve been questioning my sexuality for some time now..
Since my teen years I’ve always been a lesbian but I found myself in very emotionally draining relationships with women ever since.. It wasn’t until recently I started having relationships with boys and felt the drastic difference with being with them.
From my experience with men I started to feel wanted and desired in a way that was different than what I was used to.
It felt more light hearted and easy talking to them.
and things felt smoother honestly.
However I have had hardest time to even open up to men as much as I have with woman. It’s just a different intimacy level with women that I love so much.
This feeling is so so so confusing. I use to be so sure I liked being with women.. now I can’t make my mind up.
@politeCranberry007 Idk but maybe you are bipolar or something and it's not necessary to put a tag though.. But yeah knowing with whom you to be with forever is a challenging task.
To be bi is a continual series of coming-out moments… You’ll come out again and again and again to every person you’ll ever date…" (said by an American Dr.)
What can you do?
□ Accept that you are bisexual first of all.
□ Don't try to get into the sexual identity of people, date with different people having different sexual and gender identity.
□ Treat it as you have more option to choose from whom you want to be with.
I know being bisexual is confusing but giving you ideology that I am attracted to guys but in guys there might be some whom I am physically attracted and there are some who I share my emotions with.
Love will eventually find you :)
I have never experienced that love though.. I mean ideal one.. but yeah Imagine people in relationship.. do you think that they do not get attracted to other guy or girl?
Hope it answers you question..
Sexuality can be so confusing regardless of how you identify. You don't have to pressure yourself to have it all figured out and slap a label on it. It sounds like you're opening yourself up to new experiences and exploring how you feel which is really great. There's nothing wrong with that at all.
Personally it took me forever to finally realize my sexuality. I am fluid so my sexual attraction towards different genders changes and shifts a lot. It can be so confusing. One week I'll feel so straight, the next so gay. I guess I just learned to accept it for what it is and just roll with it.
I hope you find peace within yourself and a romantic situation you feel really positive about, no matter who its with. :)