Lgbt
Hiw did you know you liked men? Im
a man in his 20s and im really struggling
@independentBeach3656 For me, I realized that I liked men after talking to a gay man and discovering myself, especially in college. I hadn't had a lot of exposure to LGBT individuals. Also, my family was conservative and Christian, so I had to realize it the challenging way. I realized that, when dating women, I wasn't really interested or into it. Even when dating a girl, I found men to be attractive. I tried to resist it, and tried not to be. I realized that it was who I was. It had been that way for a long time, but I was in denial until my late teens. Even in my 20s, I tried to be straight, but that's not how it works, based on my experience. I know the self-discovery may be challenging. While I know it's hard, in my opinion, if a guy finds men attractive, especially after they have questioned, or likes men, they probably would be into guys. I think it's something though that everyone should figure out. In my opinion, I think it's how a person is. That being said, I believe there are some people who are bisexual. I thought I was one of those; however, I realized that I am not really attracted to women in that kind of way. I should have known from being really young. In my era, I loved Beyonce, Brittney Spears, Spice Girls. Again, I found that I pushed it down and was in denial for a long time. I know it's a tough process. Also, even after coming out, it's still been hard. However, I know I need to be genuinely who I am. For me, I also tried to deny it, because of what religion told me. However, in my opinion, pushing it down and hiding it is worse than being who you are.