NEED HELP
I have recently come out as gay and has anyone got tips and ideas to help me feel more comfortable in sexaulity and trying to understand it more
@wellypen23
What a brave step 🥰
It will take you time to feel comfortable in your own skin.
Don't rush into anything.
Only tell who you feel comfortable telling.
Follow your instincts.
Do what feels good for you.
You matter for you 💜
Thanks thats making me feel more comfortable
@wellypen23
What a brave step 🥰
It will take you time to feel comfortable in your own skin.
Don't rush into anything.
Only tell who you feel comfortable telling.
Follow your instincts.
Do what feels good for you.
You matter for you 💜
@wellypen23Welcome! I am glad for you on your step and choice for coming out as gay. Mostly I feel like everyone is their own individual. Meaning that you don't need to feel pressure to fit into a box. But if it is available for you to socialize with other LGBTQ+ people, meet either some, or many, or try and volunteer or join groups where you have people around you who might have a lot of overlapping thoughts and feelings and experiences. I hope you have those types around you already. But if you don't, that is okay. You can find a lot of spaces where yo will meet like-minded people. But really there is so much variety. You will get to know more when you just live your life as an out gay person. It already becomes different when people know that about you. Some experiences might change, and hopefully for the better. And you might run into things that never happened before you came out. I think taking notice and staying aware and reflecting can all help. And over time you will look back and realize how much you know.
I wouldnt know where to look in the UK or even know who to talk to