Sexual
I told my gf when we were dating, I said I don't want sex but she insisted anyway without me saying yes properly. Idk now, I was just an asexual person and now I'm having a conflict in me like I feel like it's my fault, idk if I was brainwashed. I could be.
@andrewtan99
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. Your feelings and experiences are completely valid, and you deserve to be heard and supported. Consent is more than just the absence of a ‘no’—it should be an enthusiastic and ongoing ‘yes.’ If you didn’t fully feel like you had a choice or were pressured into something that didn’t align with your boundaries, that’s not okay, and it’s understandable that you’re struggling with these emotions now.
Being asexual is absolutely valid, and I know the world doesn’t always recognize or respect asexual identities the way it should. That can make it even harder to process situations like this, especially when you’re questioning whether your feelings are justified. But please know—it’s not your fault. You deserve relationships that honor your identity, your boundaries, and your comfort.
If you ever want to talk through your feelings or just need a space where you feel seen and understood, I’m here to listen without judgment. You’re not alone in this.