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Shall I or shall I not?

User Profile: silentvoiceactivemind
silentvoiceactivemind September 14th, 2025

There is an individual, correction, two individuals who have piqued my interest at work. One works the same days as myself but is Days where as I am Nights. The other individual works nights as well but opposite days of me.

I communicate with either of them when chance arises, again more so with the one that works Days of me. I enjoy the presence of either one, easy to talk to and find them quite easy on the eyes if not distracting. 😋

My curiosity is, if I could get some advice. Dare I inform them that I have interesting them; more than a friend interest or leave it be? Unfortunately I cannot determine their orientation and do not feel it appropriate to ask. But the curiosity remains of do I say something or leave it unsaid, not wanting to complicate things at work

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 14th, 2025

@silentvoiceactivemind

It's quite fun to have crushes and someone easy on the eye 😁

Enjoy it.

Don't put too much pressure on it.

Get to know them more.

Let it grow organically and trust your instincts 💜💕

User Profile: barkerxavierr
barkerxavierr September 22nd, 2025

I’ve been in similar situations where the chemistry is clear, but work dynamics make things tricky. The fnf rhythm of casual conversations is fun, but if you’re feeling that pull, honesty can be refreshing—just keep it respectful and light. Maybe a subtle approach, like, "Hey, I think you're cool and would like to get to know you better outside of work," could keep things chill, without complicating the work vibe too much.