Confused
Hey guys! I am 16 teen old girl and I am confused about my sexuality. I find men and women hot. But I don’t know if I am bisexual. I spoke to a Anonymous person online and I was confused back then and said him I am confused and he asked do you find your classmates hot or older women, I said older women. He said it’s common to get attracted to older women in teenage it’s just a phase! So I wanted to know how to know if I am bisexual I am just confused…!!!
@Sunset1010 hey dear. I think that neither the anonymous person nor I are in the position to tell you your sexuality and I would surely not consider your feelings a "phase". Your emotions, feelings and perception in this moment is very real, no matter what your sexuality turns out to be in the end. It helped me personally to figure out if I like both when I asked myself if I just like the idea of being with women, or if I could see myself actually trying it out. In the end however, theres no need to rush to define your sexuality for now. If you want to, you can just go with the flow and go after what you feel in each moment. It will help you to figure it out eventually.
Thank you for clarifying the “phase part” because it’s so easily for people to say and so easy to get confused if you are not completely sure. And yes, I can see my self actually trying it out. I spend alot of time yesterday on this and one of my friend is also bicurious. I think I am bi and I will take my time to know myself more. Thank you for being here and helping me because it can be easy to invalidate my feelings and doubt myself. Thank you 🤍🤍
hi! i am also a 16 year old girl and i was recently confused also. just here to offers some support now that i’ve worked past it. i thought i was just questioning being bi for no reason, and it took me a while to come to terms with the fact that i am not straight. now i’m questioning being a lesbian haha which is funny because i genuinely thought i liked guys and that questioning my sexuality was a phase. (hint: it’s usually not a phase) good luck to you!! *mwah*
