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User Profile: txtsdog
txtsdog July 12th, 2021

Ive been questioning my sexuality for the past 4 or 5 months and recently ive been struggling so much i dont know what to do or what to think anymore im completely lost which is making feel like im. Faking it...like i find girls attractive...but i also dk if i would date one irl i can imagine myself dating one but like i feel thats just my imagination not real life...ive been struggling so so much and ik im not the only one but like my heart beats so fucking fast when i think about it and even when i think abt my pronouns i really dont know what to do if anyone please can advice to do something ill be really grateful (note i cant experiment with the same gender since my family and the whole country is homophobic..so its hard...plus covid) (sry i sound annoying but i really need someones help)

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User Profile: kalopsia3636
kalopsia3636 July 12th, 2021

it’s okay to be confused! questioning your sexuality means you’re on the right track. we will all figure this out together and just know that you’re not alone. but also if you prefer, you could go by unlabeled or queer which basically means that you don’t identify under a specific label for sexuality, gender and any other identification. (i’m unlabeled, but that doesn’t matter bc this is about you) if you feel more comfortable with a label then don’t feel pressured to know right away

User Profile: diplomaticHuman250
diplomaticHuman250 July 12th, 2021

Thanks for sharing, remember no one knows exactly what their preferences are right away. Brunette, Blonde or bald? Glasses or no? Tall, average or short? There's so many options & nothing wrong with taking the time to figure out what you want. Dating a blonde doesn't mean you can never date a ginger!

User Profile: sunflower2901
sunflower2901 August 7th, 2021

I'm new to this so I have no idea if you'll see this but ... im very sorry to hear that you're struggling. I would love to help but I feel I am just so confused and hurting and struggling like you so instead I just wanted to share that you're not alone in the hope that it will help just a little bit ❤