Struggling
I’ve been struggling with my my sexuality for a while. Which is weird to me because I’ve been “out” as bi for years. I never really had to come out to my family because they knew before I was willing to say it out loud and one family member use to make comments about how my former best friend and I were always more than close. Anyway, it’s weird to me because I’m now 26 going on 27 and up until a couple years ago I didn’t really mind telling people I was bi. Suddenly at 23 or 24 I didn’t want anyone to know. A part of me is still not comfortable with my sexuality. It’s difficult for me to talk about because I’ve never been in a “real” relationship (whatever that is). I was wondering, is it weird that for years I had almost no problem telling people about my sexuality and that suddenly it’s difficult to even talk about?
im living at malaysia where people looking down at LGBTQ+ community. im 19, i think in next 10 years I will be in the same situation like you. it's all about YOU, you have the choice to speak about it or either not to. i only came "out" to a few friends that are close with me, but i feel more comfortable talking to stranger or person that doesn't know much about me about my sexuality. i think what u feel is not weird, it's normal to have those feeling :) and why should we explain to those who doesn't care much about us ? remember you are the first priority to yourself
Thank you for you reply. I think I’m little frustrated and struggling with my sexuality because I had no problem talking about it before and now it’s nearly impossible for to talk about it.
