questioning😭.
okay okay so i kind of need some help with figuring out my sexuality …
im going through a breakup with a girl rn and looking back on the situation, i don’t even know if i was even attracted to her. what happens to me is that i get VERY attached to the people i end up dating to the point that if they had a partner i would be sad, thinking that they don’t care about me anymore because im not their significant other. i also think that i get so focused on wanting people to like me more than friends, that i don’t even get time to think if i have feelings for them. while i was with this person, i didnt really feel much attraction to her unless something happened during the relationship like her telling me “we need to talk” or something like that. THEN i start feeling some way towards them.
im currently questioning if im aromatic or cupioromantic but i need someone elses pov on it to help me😭😭😭, thanks !!!
@bx3 Hi! I hope you are doing well. I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a breakup 😞 Breakups are never easy. I know you feel like you possibly weren't attracted to her. Do you think you weren't attracted to her individually or all girls? Have you thought about the possibility of exploring a relationship with a guy? It's okay to want to explore different possibilities! I don't have much experience, but maybe you could try and read other people's stories online and see what fits you best? Hopefully, others can give their opinion and it will help! You will figure this out 💚 Try not to put too much pressure on yourself because everything will sort itself out and you will get through this!