romantic vs. sexual attraction

Hey all, So I'm a cis woman and now know and have accepted that I'm sexually attracted to other women. I also have been known to have romantic feelings for men, but not sexual ones. Recently, I met a guy who I have strong romantic feelings for. We explored kissing one night and I did not enjoy it, nor did I have any sexual interest in his body. But, I often find myself wanting to cuddle with him or touch hands. I feel emotionally close to him and have thoughts of wanting to be with him all the time, as we really enjoy eachother's company. So far, he is not open to having a non-traditional type of relationship. Maybe that's my answer, but my question is how to navigate this and having this type of orientation in relationships. I hope that my romantic and sexual feelings will align with one person, but maybe I need to explore other options. I have been in a relationship with a woman and while that didn't work out, it did feel right to be with a woman. Anyway, I could use help!