Break or breakup?

6months to re-evaluate our relationship because my gf needs time to find herself. Were intimate but than she tells me that were still broken up every 10 minutes that sex wont change whats going on. Shes 38 and Im 24. Weve been dating for over a year and the pressure of life have really weighed down on us. I try to talk to her and she says she needs space. So I give it to her. She tells me to not block her out of my life and cries about it but than doesnt want me to move on. She says she needs time to grow and we both need therapy but Im so confused on what she really wants. She says to work on myself and she will work on herself and than re-evaluate our relationship in 6 months... Im sorry but wtf. We talked about marriage and she bought me a ring but she doesnt want to grow with me I dont understand. When things get rough in relationships u either work through it or call it quits. I feel so confused. She tells me how much she loves me but doesnt want me back in the house. Tells me shes my twin flame but needs her space. I feel like Im being toyed with and I love her with my heart and soul. I dont know what to do. Are we taking a break or breaking up?