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Help Me Please I Need Relationship Advice

User Profile: JenCHo
JenCHo January 8th, 2022

I’ve been online dating my current gf for three weeks. This is my very first relationship and I was excited. But actually my gf and I have nothing in common. She three years younger than me but already has a long ex list, she likes dancing, singing, vaping. On the other hand I’m a classic nerd and dating rookie. And I think I’ve been committed to her more than she likes me.

But few days ago, I became free with another girl from Trevor Space. She’s my age, we have similar hobby. We just click. Most importantly, she willingly engage in deep conversation and serious talking. Meanwhile all my gf and I do is morning & evening greetings and some emojis. My gf never open up for a conversation.

I began to grow feelings for the other girl. And I’m even considering a break up (I’ll never cheat on my gf). What should I do?

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User Profile: Courage1337
Courage1337 January 8th, 2022

What does your heart say? Listen carefully

User Profile: Linognathus
Linognathus January 8th, 2022

I’d say go to the second one because if you really like the first, there shouldn’t be a second one or thought like this

Plus I think a good relationship is where your maturity are matched, so if you find someone that have the same frequency as you then I think that’s special.

But I’m an outsider so this is just an opinion from a stranger. You know better about what you really want in a relationship. Choose someone that can give you what you need in a relationship. That’s the most important one.

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User Profile: JenCHo
JenCHo OP January 8th, 2022

Thank you so much for a thoughtful comment

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