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How to move on from someone that you gave your all?

User Profile: imjustme33
imjustme33 April 17th, 2023

I'm 33 and the woman I was with is 43 we kinda just recently broke up and I had to tell her I can't play this game with her I left a place that I was happy because she was one of the reasons I moved back home but it has ended with us seperating again I told her I can't play these games anymore but her response was nothing and it hurt even more we were together for 5 years at this point I just feel empty 😞😞😞

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User Profile: Clayton7
Clayton7 April 17th, 2023

@imjustme33 If there isn't a chance of you two getting back together you must accept that breakups are a normal part of life. What you are going through is perfectly normal and with time you will make a full recovery. For now it is ok to remember the good times but you must also know you must move on. You cannot let this bad experience ruin your future. There is someone else waiting for you out there and it's up to you to find them. The only trick to this is you can't look for them. Focus on yourself, your hobbies, and try your best to engage in social activities. You can do this, you have your whole life ahead of you. Goodluck and i wish you the best. ;)

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User Profile: imjustme33
imjustme33 OP April 17th, 2023

Thank you @Clayton7 that is something I really needed to hear I have always opened the door back open to her for her to come and do the samething over again and maybe it's just time for me to be about me there has been many times we have gotten back together but this time I'm just tired and I don't think I can do it anymore I just gotta stop letting her enter that door and just keep it closed


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User Profile: sunnyKiwi1982
sunnyKiwi1982 May 4th, 2023

Moving on is really hard. Especially if you loved the person so much leaving you feeling empty. 💔

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User Profile: imjustme33
imjustme33 OP May 4th, 2023

Moving on is hard but I don't want to give her that power anymore @sunnyKiwi1982

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User Profile: sunnyKiwi1982
sunnyKiwi1982 May 5th, 2023

That’s good. Moving on depends on your pace. Everything will be okay.

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User Profile: Crumusic
Crumusic May 4th, 2023

💔@imjustme33

I know ur probably gonna think that I'm a kid but I wanna try help u so pls read ❤️. When i was in primary school I had a bf and we were going to different high school's. Anyway I was rly sad and well i just kept on texting that person and we were like together sorta. I was just too clingy but sometimes u just gotta let go. Weird refrence but ik someone around ur age who taught at my primary school and she had problems w/ her wife who was like 40 and she didn't know what to do. Also you should listen to Older by Sasha Sloan on spotify or anything really. Dunno if you'll like it but read the lyrics, I love it!💗

~Sophie

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User Profile: imjustme33
imjustme33 OP May 4th, 2023

I appreciate that @Crumusic and I will check out this song and see if I enjoy it

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