Lesbian in india
Hey guys! I'm from India and it's very homophobic country and I don't if should just stay in India or move to other country. I'm so confused on what to do.
@sincereCup7012 hi there!
I'm from India as well so I do understand where you're coming from. That is definitely a difficult situation to be in.
Please know that we're here for you! ❤️
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You're not alone. ❤️
Hi! I just so confused if I should just stay here in India or move to Canada for study ( which is very expensive I have to take student loan like nearly 20lakhs ) to get a PR. But I'm afraid if I stay in India I will be alone for the rest of my life and everyone around me is very homophobic.
@sincereCup7012 well that is definitely a confusing situation to be in. How does it all make you feel?
It sounds like both of the options, moving to Canada and staying in India, have their own pros and cons. Would it help to list them out and then try to figure out how to go about it ahead?
Can you think of any support you have outside cups, if any?
Yeah it is very confusing. I have no lgbtq+ friends and my only big concern about moving to Canada is what if i Can't find a job there I mean 20 lakhs is not easy to repay. Every time I think about what should I do I eventually think suicide might be the easier option that's why I actually downloaded this app. Because I'm having this thoughts about suicide and how easy it will be for me to just give up .
No don’t give up. I know it gonna be a long fight and it will be hard. But don’t give up. It will worth it in the end. Do you consider to move to other country with lower cost compare to Canada? Is there any group or organization support LGBT in your country that you can join? Just do your best and see how far you can go so you don’t regret when you look back. This world is so big and you’ll never know what happens next if you give up. It is so heartbreaking to hear your story. But I do believe that best things will happen to those who persistent. Take care of yourself. Stay safe. I wish you all the best.
I hope it will get better. Thank you for your message though ❤.
