Trying to understand
Hello all, this is my first post ever !! Me and my gf have been together for 2 years and she’s has my entire heart as I have hers. We are living together with my bestfriend (we all have 3 separate rooms but Ofcourse my gf and I sleep together every night in one of our rooms) she’s so excited to move into an apartment with just me and her but I don’t know how I feel about. This is because I don’t know I feel in general anymore. We are very different and I feel like my needs don’t get met. We are young and I don’t know if I’m not being patient or if this is simply not the person for me. She loves me and will do anything for me, but sometimes love isn’t enough. I just don’t know if I’m doing too much thinking and with any relationship there will be problems or if I don’t need to be with her anymore. Thank you for reading!
Take time to think this through, understand what you really want. If you think you no longer want to be with her, it'd be best to let her know. It's unfair to string her along.
Speaking from having a similar experience; if you feel that something is off or doesn't feel right, then you need to trust your gut instinct. If you feel that they aren't the person for you, then they must likely aren't. Sometimes you can be in a perfect relationship with the wrong person, and more often than not, it doesn't last because its just not a match and that's okay too
