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User Profile: iwylmb
iwylmb July 5th, 2021

hey! ive just recently discovered im lesbian and ive been dealing with very bad comphry latley and im considering labeling myself as bisexual again but ik im not? i find men attractive but im not attracted to them and i wouldnt wanr to have any romantic/sexual relationship with someone who identified as male (unless they were fictional) but i have fantisies about me and men being together and i enjoy it? can anyone help clear this up?

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User Profile: indigoTree1282
indigoTree1282 July 5th, 2021

I can relate,are you ok?

User Profile: sillyDuckling
sillyDuckling July 5th, 2021

@iwylmb you're still a teen and said you only recently discovered being a lesbian, why rush so much to slap different labels on? Just say lesbian if that's how you feel. Just say bi if you're thinking maybe you could like guys too and want to keep that open. Just don't use any labels if you're feeling unsure at the moment. I don't get the need to "fit into" a label, especially when you're so young AND really learning about yourself still

User Profile: moonchild1112
moonchild1112 July 16th, 2021

Hey, I recently discovered I’m a lesbian and I struggled and still do with comp het and male validation. If you need advice/support or whatever, I’m here to talk.