getting scared im faking my attraction to women
out of the blue i had a thought that was like "what if youre just pretending to be a lesbian" this deeply distressed me because the thought of not being able to date/love women is such a sad thought to me. im so scared that the way i feel towards women are just what straight girls feel secretly. could i get some validation up in here hahah
@funnyDog8378
It's been said (I don't recall who, unfortunately), "Don't believe everything you think." Sometimes when I have an unwelcome thought, one that takes me back to a place of uncertainty and anxiety, I imagine it floating away like a cloud, or being blown away by a stiff breeze.
@funnyDog8378 even after dating girls for years and never experiencing attraction towards men, i've always been hesitant to refer to myself as a lesbian because what if i'm faking it? what if i'm confused? i usually use other labels even though i've never really been interested in anyone other than women. i think it can be hard to understand the way that you feel, but it's okay to be unsure. this was honestly really reassuring to see because i thought i was the only one who felt like this.
