help with my crush (she does like me back)
hi everyone !!! im trissy! and me and the girl i’m talking to are both young teenagers. i am a lesbian (openly) yet ive been through a lot with past relationships. especially men. and i’ve been hurt so much. i’m also a people pleaser. and i find myself trying to be perfect for her. like a robot. and i don’t know whether that’s bad or good but ik that it means i’m trying to not be myself. ik she likes me for me but still. i like her sooo much. and all i think about when i talk to her is having her hold me or hugging her and kissing her all over her face and telling her she’s such a handsome girl and i know she feels the same. i just idk i want to be perfect for her. even if she thinks i’m perfect just the way i am already.
Hi I recently came back so I read your post and I understand what you mean in trying to please part I did that you the point where I'm changing my whole personality not for them but because of them because I found myself in a situation with a guy and he took advantage of my innocents and took something from me I can't get back and that's when I realize I have been putting everyone's needs before mine whole I settle for less so now I don't talk to anyone, not even my family much really I just stay inside and keep to myself. Recently I have been questioning my preference or maybe now deciding to deal with it I'm not sure lol but I can't come out even if I want to the world we live in is a little more accepting, yes but still I feel or I know my mom will not accept me so if your girlfriend likes/loves you for you don't overthink it relax love an appreciate her because as I read she appreciative for you you found lappreciate it. Call me Tren.
thank you so much tren. i really appreciate it. i was taken advantage of too. and i lose the thing i can’t get back l as well. me and the girl are now dating. and im so in love like i can’t even explain it. yet i worry about her so much. i hope ur feeling okie tren and if you ever need anybody in here for you. thanks again :)
