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Am I bi, queer or maybe flux?

User Profile: thebookwrm
thebookwrm August 9th, 2022

I'm not sure I mean I know I like boys but I also like masc presenting non-binary people. I think girls are cute sometimes, I might date a girl but I'm not sure. Like sometimes I only want to date girls other times I wanna date boys and another time I'll date non-binary people. But like I only like masc presenting people though I don't understand it's really confusing and I'm scared to ask others cause I feel like it's rude, I'm sure it's not but I just tend to overthink a lot. Any type of advice or help is appreciated.

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener August 10th, 2022

@thebookwrm

It can be hard when we want to find a label that fits our experience, or feel like we have to fit ourselves into a box to use a label. I just try to remember that labels are there to describe and not define us. Also it's okay to not know your exact label or to use one label and have it grow and change or become more refined as you know yourself better. For example one label you might also want to look at is "androsexual" or experiencing attraction to masculinity. But again you have to decide what fits for you not me or anyone else!

Overall, like what you like no matter which label you use! And remember we also don't have to label ourselves if we don't want to.