Questioning myself
I’m 25 and I’ve always dated men. I recently ended things with a man because I realized I wasn’t connecting with him physically. I wasn’t attracted to him the way I feel I should be. I’ve recently discovered FLETCHER and her music and it’s resonated with me in ways I didn’t expect. I have always had fantasies about women and some men but in the last year it’s been mainly women. I know I’m attracted to her without a doubt. I haven’t kissed or had sex with a woman but I am really starting to wonder if I’m bisexual. I have been attracted to men in the past but it’s definitely mainly women. I don’t have anyone in my life that I feel comfortable enough to go to for advice. I don’t know if I’m ready to explore my sexuality but I know I’m conflicted and confused.
@lavenderPlum8284
I totally get it, I don't have anyone in my life that I can talk to about this either. One day I am completely confident that I am bisexual and the next I start thinking that maybe I'm lesbian or even straight. Everybody finds themselves a little differently but what I have found that helps and might help you too is realizing that its okay for me to be confused. I started writing a journal to figure out what I am feeling, but while I'm pretty sure I'm bi I still question it.
I haven’t tried journaling. I’m at a point where I don’t know what my next steps should be.
