I have been having a hard time finding a good place to be.

@tryingtosurvive2024

Hi. As far as I can understand it, this is not a single question, but at least three questions in one: about "finding your place", "online" and "as a guy".

I think we all struggle to find places AND PEOPLE who are the best choices for us.

Online. But is "online" the real you, or just a part or a reflection of the entire you?

As a guy. It depends on what kind of men we all want to be, with the ideas of "macho" or "the alpha male" rather being things to laugh at than recipes for our lives, the reality of 2025 being much more complex.

I think you are a man of many hobbies and interests, and still searching for your own way (not satisfied with going mainstream or coping the road of someone else!), and that deserves appreciation.

@tryingtosurvive2024 Just keep searching. Seek and you will find.