Why do I have to say im a boy?
Since I started puberty I've been confused by a girl most of the times, my friends were going through the same so I tought it was normal. But it's been so many times for me... I always feel the necesity to specify to new ppl I meet im a man, beacuse when I don't I feel invalidated, idk if it's fragile masculinity or it just really damaged my self steem, im a femenine guy; but you can still tell im one, which is what ticks me off, how can I stop caring abt it?
@mikerou
When you go around trying to get people to make sure they know your a male your instantly putting doubt in people's minds, because you are a male and it's completely unnecessary to convince others who you are..
Your like laying traps for yourself to get caught in.
I'm sorry to hear your insecure about status as a male. Hopefully in time you will feel more adequate.
Thank you for sharing! I respect your post totally 👏 🌲
@mikerou
I think getting some muscles and training in gym might actually help. Listen, it actually helps a lot. At least, for me. When you get muscles, you did not just gain a pretty look, you gain confident through the process. Yes, the process might be long, but it is worth it.
(Sorry about the broken english :) )
Jin
