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BFRB Self Help Guide

User Profile: Lucy
Lucy August 27th, 2018

Hey OCD/BFRB Warriors! Here is my personal self help guide I've written to help deal with BFRBs- some of these can also help with OCD too <3

Some tips for overcoming BFRBs would be to see how long you can push it before you need to "fix" whatever is out of place or irritating your compulsion. See how long you can last and think of it like a game; see how long you can do it and try to beat your score every time. Train your brain to last longer and longer and longer until it's not a problem anymore.

Remember that your disorder isnt necessarily a bad thing. Its just a different way of thinking. Dont beat yourself up about it.

Finding alternative coping strategies can help. For example, some people twiddle elastic bands, or spinner rings, or special tangle toys like the one in the picture. I myself have had a spinner ring for 3 years!

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Dont be overly focused on being pull/pick free. Set realistic expectations. These disorders are so so hard to get over! Video related here

Join facebook groups to find like minded people, or talk here! Remember not to share social media on 7cups, but there are loads of great places like Facebook, Reddit and Twitter to find other support groups, as well as this forum.

A great video for support can be found here

I wrote this in December 2016, back when I was recovering from the depths of my disorder- looking back now these things really helped me, but remember everyone is different!

Do you have any other techniques you use to help yourself? Share below!

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User Profile: Lucy
Lucy OP August 27th, 2018

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User Profile: PhoenixAsh
PhoenixAsh August 27th, 2018

I love this Lucy! Thanks for sharing ^-^

User Profile: EarlyOwl
EarlyOwl August 27th, 2018

I really wish I was able to reach out about this. I'm unable to witht my family and it always feels taboo to bring it out into the open. I'm sorry if it looked like I didn't read your post, but I did.

User Profile: summertimeSamness
summertimeSamness August 28th, 2018

@Lucy

i have spinners, cubes, and tangle toys :P

User Profile: MissMeghan
MissMeghan August 28th, 2018

@Lucy I think we've been needing a BFRP guide for awhile now! smiley Will this be added to the 7 cups self help guides, or the topic list for chat help (hopefully you know the one i'm talking about, the listener one cheeky)

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User Profile: Lucy
Lucy OP August 28th, 2018

@MissMeghan *BFRB :p and I agree, we need more stuff going on with OCD and stuff, it's hard!

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User Profile: MissMeghan
MissMeghan August 28th, 2018

@Lucy oop I did it again XD lol I promise its my computer doing that.. gonna drive me insaine!! For sure for sure :3

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User Profile: Love2help09
Love2help09 November 18th, 2018

Who has ocd and helpful tips ?