Practical or Emotional help or both
What help do you offer a hoarder? is it practical or emotional help?
I'm sure any tips will help anyone wishing to be of help but are unsure how to approach a hoarder. It would be great if you could share 
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Lucy2
Both my parents are hoarders and I myself can sometimes feel myself slipping into the habit.
I would say emotional support is what is needed. Practical support just does not work, or at least it hasn't in my experience. When I start to hoard it is because I have formed an emotion attachment with the things I'm keeping. I know they are taking up space, making the place look untidy and creating an obstacle course. I know I'll never use them and they are better of gone. Yet I can't bring myself to get rid of yhem because of that emotional bond. Sometimes it can feel like losing a friend.
HI there @WildEarth It's such a complicated business isn't it and I can totally understand how you form attachments to things and how it can be very traumatic to let go of them. Do your circle of friends give you that emotional support you need?
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I have learned to deal with it myself as I have experienced it from both sides having to support my parents. Normally O am able to catch myself before I let it go too far.
@WildEarth Is there a place on 7 Cups for Children of Hoarders? Could we start a thread, there may not be many on 7 cups but I would like to see a support group for children of hoarders started.
Both :)
Reason being people get emotionally attached to things where as people need to realize it's not the things that matter but the people!
We have started valuing things more than we value people. If only we have this kind of attachment with people things would be so different :)
One should also understand that all those unused things sitting might be of great value and importance to a needy person so might as well give them away- either they belong to us or to somebody we love greatly.
Speaking for myself, I tend to giveaway the things I haven't used in 8 to 9 months no matter how dear to me. That also helps me greatly to "move on" from alot of things- good and bad and also create space.
Hi there @Ashusalfeelinglow What an insightful post, thanks for your contribution. I'm not sure many of us would be able to give away any of our possessions after such a short time but if it helps you view life in a different perspective then I'm really pleased you have found a positive way of dealing with this issue. Well done 
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Lucy2
My mother has been an extreme hoarder since I was probably, 10 years old. Now I'm 30 and I recently helped her move into an assisted living complex .. I found boxes w/things still wrapped in newspapers from 1990! We moved twice before, so that means she's had boxes of things she never unpacked! After I moved on my own, things got worse. She started ordering things off the internet that she never opened or put together. She basically made room from the front door to the kitchen and leading to her bathroom and bedroom. The rest of the house was full of junk. It was a mess to move! I think a lot of it is emotional. She grew up w/money, her first husband had money, and by 1980, everything fell apart. She met my dad, but he was just a farmer, and then she had me in 1985 .. money became tight. Then my parents divorced in 1990 so she had to manage on her own. And that is why I have a lot of problems .. she drilled in my head since I could count to 10 and read the alphabet, "don't rely on a man and you must always depend on yourself" .. which is contradictory b/c she became a hoarder after everyone she depended on left her except her children .. So it is all a mental issue w/hoarders.
Hi @TransAm85 Thank you so much for sharing. It's very helpful and supportive to others to know they are not alone and to share experiences.It sounds as though you've had a great deal of experience and I share your thoughts too. Please, do pop in again, you are very welcome. 
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Lucy2
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Emotional help first, then possibly practical things...
My parents are hoarders. Seeing this up-close is heartbreaking, there is an emotional context that isn't really publicized about hoarding, it's a mental disorder. There are lots of ways hoarding happens, but I think one of them is isolation and need for love, or inability to see love and thus turning to objects as a way to comfort themselves and feel important, My parents are wonderful people, but they have no tools to be functioning in society due to paranoia, severe guilt, severe depression, anxiety along with a laundry list of assuming the worst perfectionism/ narcisssim and xenophobia, If I'm as honest as I can be about it. Getting out of the house, feeling better about themselves as people would be my first base, building social skills, or confronting broken ways of thinking about society, themselves, and others would be my first thought. There's got to be a cushion for the inevitable fall when they let go of the objects, (if they do), so they can re-build their lives better than before
Thank you so much @toughBanana57 Your post has been a valuable insight from someone right at the centre of this issue. I thank you also for being so candid, I feel for you and your parents and I'm sure your post will benefit and comfort others in a similar situation.
Please know that I am always here and would really love to hear from you again, so do drop by.
Lucy2
You are so welcome @lucy2. Another thing I'd suggest is therapy or having a professional help them with their emotions and processing the world... that would be a huge step forward in my opinion. Thank you so much for your kindness.