Looking for input
I know that It may have been better to post in the addiction thread but given the nature of the topic I thought this would also suit.
I've been drilling myself on recovery for the past five years. Since 2016 actually. I've learned a lot. I even reflected on if I learned from my mistakes and now I'm taking steps on applying it.
So here goes...
Addictive habits are a no because:
1. It affects my spirit
2. It manipulates my mind
3. It associates me with a unhealthy social circle
4. It puts me in a bad mood
5. It affects my mental health
I'm currently doing well. I was talking to my mom the other day and I told her that I've been reading my scriptures everyday since March of 2025.
I've learned that negative thoughts and anything that doesn't edify me isn't of God.
I get a little scared to post on here sometimes because at one point it was like as soon as I post good news on here about my progress it got detailed.
I feel like I've crossed over into a healthier state of mind but it's in that fresh stage.
Generally feeling happily ever after
Feeling protected
Feeling heard
Feeling understood
I'm reaching out because I've been trapped in conversations talking about negative stuff with people close to me because that seems like the only way to connect with them.
I'm not actually unhappy but they are.
Not to mention I'm tired of talking to A.I.
Any advice is welcomed.
@amicableox0685
It really sounds like you’ve put a lot of effort into getting to a healthier place, and it’s good to hear you’re feeling more grounded. Super proud of you! 🤗
That early stage of doing better can feel kind of fragile, like you’re still getting used to it.
And yeah, being around people who stay in negative conversations can be tiring when you’re trying to move forward. You don’t have to lose your progress just to match their mood.
If you ever want a space to talk things out, good or bad, there are listeners here who can sit with you. You don’t have to deal with all of it on your own. 💙
