Reconnecting
Hi @helgyafy @tinywhisper11 @mytwistedsoul
I hope you don’t mind me creating this thread. I’m sorry, I haven’t been online lately and I couldn’t find where we’ve chatted before. I think of you all often and the kindness you’ve shown me, and I wonder how you’re doing. I really hope you’ve been well. I’m sending you prayers. Please pray for or think of me too when you have a moment. Please let me know how you’ve been.
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@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas people are always shocked to find out I have a police record....... But I just love their greatest hits
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@BlueDarkAurora 😂😂😂
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I wanted to share someone cute with everyone. 😊 This is Yogi. He's 3 months old. I just got him Friday night. ❤️
@mytwistedsoul oh my god :O brb I'm gonna stare!!!
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@BlueDarkAurora 😊 He is sooooo fluffy! He's made the house feel so much lighter ❤️
Still sending out lots of vibes for those wishes ❤️
@mytwistedsoul I'm genuinely so so happy for you. And I hope he always be the light to guide you whenever it gets a bit dark 💖
Yogi ^-^ so cute! (Is the name based on Yogi bear?)
@BlueDarkAurora Thank you so much! I hope so too! A furry little antidepressant ❤️ He so sweet and silly 😊
@mytwistedsoul awwwwww yogi😍😍 I want to pick him up and cuddle him forever, and I'm kinda scared of dogs , but not himmm😍😍 I'm so glad you got another dog and he is perfect💖💖💖💖 well done soul 💖
@Tinywhisper11 sammmeeeeeee, the look on his face is so innocent. I've been staring at him lol 💗
@BlueDarkAurora he's smiling for the photo😍 he's sooooo sweet 💖
@Tinywhisper11 T-T 💖 The sweetest 💖
@Tinywhisper11 Thank you! ❤️ I can understand being scared of some dogs. Some of them are pretty scary, not this guy though. He plays with his food and treats. 😊 He takes things so gently ❤️
@mytwistedsoul xD
@mytwistedsoul awww😂😂😂 yogi is funny 💖 you two are gonna have alot of fun together 💖 I bet everything he does right now is funny or cute 💖I'm really happy for you and proud of you 💖
@Tinywhisper11 Aww thank you! ❤️ I must admit I was having some second thoughts this morning about whether this was the right choice. I just have to remember that everything is still new to him (and me) we'll adjust and it will work out
@mytwistedsoul he's just a baby💖 he will learn quickly and you'll be best mate's in no time😁 yep! That's right he's your BM😁😁😁
@Tinywhisper11 He's the furriest BM I've ever had! 😂😂
@mytwistedsoul 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ewwww
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Hope you're okay<3 I'm worried about you and miss you too.
@WorkingutThrough2 We're here for you always<3 Miss you<3
Hi friends,
(I hope it’s ok to write that, although I have not been a good friend lately, you have been for me.)
I don’t know when was the last time I signed on. Things here have been a little hard to explain. I have been keeping to myself, I am embarrassed, I feel ashamed of myself. I need to just say it. I gave things with my ex husband another chance. My kids kept saying they missed him, it tugged at my heart so long. He said things he never said before, I thought the distance made an impact. Of course, it was ok at first kind of, but things started happening again. I feel so stupid and a bad mother. I try to make decisions that seem right for everyone, but I make things worse. I thought to write you all so many times but just couldn’t talk to anyone. Also, there’s something else. My kids have been telling me I’ve said and done things I don’t remember. This part is nothing bad necessarily, just chores and conversation. I am doing ok, please don’t worry, I’m not sure what my problem is. But it has made me scared and think I should keep to myself. I kept thinking about you all, and it was eating me up wondering how you’re doing. I feel so bad to see you’ve all remembered me and I just stayed quiet and away. I’m so sorry.
Twist, your new pup is so cute, what kind is he? Aurora, I am wishing for your 2 wishes too. Tiny, I hope this note finds you treating yourself well. WorkingItThrough I really hope you’re doing ok. It made me cry to see you’ve written my name recently, it feels like it’s been years. I’ve been hoping the best thoughts for you all. Please take good care.
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@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Hiiiiiiiii :O You're back?
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@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas yep still valid to call us friends and will always be :)
It's alright, you never have to hide away from here. We'll be with you while you figure things out<3 I'm just glad to see you and glad to know that you and the kids are alright.
And thank you ^-^ <3
@BlueDarkAurora Thank you ❤️
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Pieces! It is so wonderful to see you my friend! We were concerned about you! You have nothing to be sorry for. I second Aurora, in that you don't need to hide yourself from us here. We accept and love you no matter what. I hope you understand that we worry about you because we care. ❤️
@mytwistedsoul Thank you ❤️
I am familiar with Bichon frise but not the Lhasa. They seem similar but one is poofier? Wow what a handsome cutie! I love his colors. It must be a huge change from big dog to small dog personalities. Small dogs do seem to think they are big dogs don’t they? 😊 and vice versa. I had a big dog once who would crawl into your lap as if he thought he was 5 lbs. And a small dog who thought everyone should be afraid of her. 😂 I have smaller dogs right now. I have also adopted 2 more cats, a couple cute orange tabbies who got dropped off on our street. They’re super affectionate and like to bite your nose.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas I don't know much about either breed other than they're supposed to be really intelligent and make good watch dogs. The Lhasa used to guard monasteries and palaces. Bichons make good watch dogs too but are more friendly? They're the poofier ones.
@mytwistedsoul I’m so interested in the histories of the breeds. Guarding monasteries and palaces, that’s so cool! 😮 A truly nobel pup. It sounds like you two are finding your speed.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas We're slowly finding our way. He helps me work on my patience lol!
@mytwistedsoul Thank you. ☺️ You’re so sweet.
Puppies do require an incredible amount of patience don’t they? There are many manners for them to learn. Little dogs have a stubbornness about them too.
I did some searching, and the one looks almost exactly like this:
A blotched tabby? I will do some reading tonight.
I don’t know how much more I will let them give me kisses though. Today we watched the brother eat a chipmunk. 🤢 😫
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas He's definitely stubborn! He's gotten good with sit. He's been great with house training. Everything else needs a lot of work! 😂
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas yaaaaay your back 💖💖 we will all always be friends no matter what💖 we all make decisions that maybe ain't the best ones to make, that's how we learn💖 you might be not remembering small things you've been saying because your sad, and got alot going on in your head right now. You never have to hide from us we love you always and forever 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11 Thank you so much ❤️
My wishes have failed xD T-T but I've got many more!! Hope never dies ^-^
Like a flower on a mountain, touched by the first rays of sunrise, hope finds me again.
@BlueDarkAurora I like your positivity!
@mytwistedsoul <3
@BlueDarkAurora ❤️ Perhaps we can all wish for your wishes again?
@mytwistedsoul I’m in. ❤️
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas I'm also in💖
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I do have two more wishes @_@ so yes please :D <3
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@BlueDarkAurora Just wanted You to know I sent another wishing fishing line out today for you. ❤️ I hope the best things happen for you.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Thank you 💗 It's alright tho, I've lost this too.
I'm sorry to you guys, I shouldn't have asked 💗
@BlueDarkAurora I really believe that when our wishes don’t work out, it means there is something even better in store that we hadn’t ever thought of. I just know there is something truly great waiting for you. People who are so kind and deep, treasures are stored up for.
You are amazing. I’m glad you’re not giving up hope. We are rallying around you. ❤️ Your time is coming soon.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Aww thank you for thinking so highly of me :') <3
It's so nice seeing you around :)
@BlueDarkAurora sometimes we'll thank God for unanswered prayers 💖
@Tinywhisper11 💗 I hope so ^^
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Good morning everyone 💖💖 for Halloween I'm gonna dress up as a ghost 👻 and drink lots of tea😁 hey! Does anyone want to see my boo tea???
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Booty-full? 😂
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@mytwistedsoul 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@BlueDarkAurora 💖😁💖
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BREAKING NEWS... A pumpkin fell off the roof and landed on a man's head 😱 he was squashed
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Happy Halloween everyone ❤️ 🎃 👻
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas Happy Halloween Pieces 🎃
@mytwistedsoul happy Halloween soul 💖
@Tinywhisper11 Happy Halloween Tiny 👻
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas happpyyyy halloweeeen💖💖
How’s everyone doing on this brand new month? I’ve read over things I missed and was wondering how you all are lately.
I am blessed to have met such amazing lovely people. When I first made this post I remember being so nervous unsure if anyone would respond or remember me. It’s made such a difference knowing you are here, being able to reciprocate care for one another, remembering good people actually exist when I’m having a bad time.
We found each other after suffering. We have been together through ups and downs. And we will be there in spirit as we realize our deepest hopes and dreams. I believe in you! ❤️
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas awww your so sweet 💖💖 I don't think any of us could forget you, we all love you 💖 mentally I'm more relaxed and happier😁 it's my birthday on Monday😁 so looking forward to getting my giant unicorn squishmallow I bought myself😁😁💖 how are you doing now since you left him last? Are your kids ok?
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas It's hard to believe it's November already!
It took a lot of courage to make that first post, we are so glad that you took the chance to reach out to us! ❤️
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas I'm so lonely😥 I've spent most of my birthday crying 😢 I wish I had a family, I wish I had close friends to come and spend time with me, I wish I was loved. Not in a relationship way, but in a family way. I'm so alone
@Tinywhisper11 (offers safe hugs) I missed your birthday ❤️ Happy belated birthday Tiny. I have to admit I often feel the same way. It's hard always being alone, spending holidays and certain celebrations with no friends or family. You always have us here but I know it's not the same either.
@mytwistedsoul thankyou💖 I'm very lucky to have you as my brother💖 I love you 💗
@Tinywhisper11 I'm lucky to have you as a sister! 😊❤️ I love you too! ❤️
@Tinywhisper11 Happy Birthday Tiny 💖 You're very precious 💖 I'm glad you're in my life and I hope all your days are filled with so much love and laughter 💖
@BlueDarkAurora your so sweet 💖 thankyou for always being here 💖💖hugs you tightly 💖
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@Tinywhisper11 I’m sorry your birthday came with a lot of painful feelings. 😞 And I’m sorry I’m so late in seeing this, I don’t know where I’ve been. I understand not having that blood family support, it’s very hard and holidays can be the hardest. I think the idea of having loving family around to celebrate is unfortunately rare. Even the families we think we’re seeing around have their own set of complications and pain. I’ve read people’s stories here and feel like they could be any of the families I see together. I hear many people talk about their “chosen family”, the people not related to them who they picked to spend time with because they feel real love there. I hope you have some of that here on 7cups and with your carers and friends there. I consider you part of my family. ❤️
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas 💖💖 thank you 💖💖
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas How are you doing? It's okay to be in a floaty state. And I hope you're not too hard on yourself. Forgiveness for others is always easy, a small step from them makes us want to stretch it to cover all the hurt they caused. It's the love that we miss, how important we made it 💗
@BlueDarkAurora I am doing well I think. Thank you. ❤️ Floaty is a good word. I seem to be losing track of time. I thought I was coming back the next day to respond to you after giving your question some thought, but I see the stamp says 3 days ago. This kind of thing keeps happening.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas It's totally okay to forget small things, stress does that sometimes and honestly life does that too ^^ are you keeping track of it?
Not being hard on yourself is such a big achievement, I'm soo glad to see you moving in that direction 💗 and I'm so happy to hear that you're doing pretty well. I hope that this good feeling keeps growing!
You can organise your thoughts here, you can talk about anything you want. Maybe talk about the situations that bring out the feeling of being overwhelmed, or any pattern that triggers it. We're all here for you 💗
I'm alright 💗
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Aurora ❤️ I was about to ask you for a status on your latest wishes, then I realized I should check the message trail above first. (When I don’t log on for a couple days and there’s more than one message here, I only seem to get a notification for one.) I’m sorry I missed your update on the 1st. 😞 And I’m even more sorry you had the feeling that you shouldn’t have asked us to and have been holding this since then. Please don’t ever regret talking here! Though I understand that feeling of vulnerability when things don’t turn out like we thought, and thinking we shouldn’t have done things the way we did. I wish I could find something better to say. I hate that your wishes didn’t work out. 😫 What I really want to say is please don’t stop trying. Maybe you decide to keep trying for whatever it is that you’ve been working towards, or maybe you decide to go for something new. Maybe take a break before giving it a go. Maybe whatever your situation is doesn’t fit with what I just said, but I hope the spirit of it fits. I know good things are on their way, they often look different than we had in our minds.
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"I wish I could find something better to say."
This is better :''))))))) this is so much more, you gave me some hope again💗 Thank you, I adore you 💖 and it means so much that you genuinely care and that you're wishing nice things for me.
I said sorry cause I thought the failure and having to share it here might come off as ungrateful after I asked you all to be a part of it. But it was really nice sharing the hope with all of you and having you be part of my wishing 💗
Thank you again...just for being here :) I trust your trust in me!! 💕
@BlueDarkAurora You’re so sweet. Even when you’re going through something big in your life, you’re still thinking of us. We are with you for the ups and downs. We can be part of the wishing, the celebration squad, and the shoulders to lean on. It made me smile that I could help bring you some hope. 😊 I really do believe good things are coming for all of us!
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas 💗
