TK Reboot
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I have a headache
Think non-headachy thoughts. :/ I hope it gets better soon.
What is a non-headachy thought?
Ummm... Cushy pillows?
Lol
I just took 2 kinds of meds, so hopefully that’ll help.
Hopefully it really does. You don't deserve headaches
I AM a headache.
Oooh me too!
No!!! Not at all :)
Check out my new icebreaker posts :)
I just messed with another telemarketer. Here's how it went:
Him: Hello, how are you doing today?
Me: Ohhhh, I'm just PEACHY!
Him: Um... Ok, great to hear, well I was actually calling about *whatever it was
Me: Oh, don't jiggle around with ME! You're just trying to get to MY MOM, huh?! Just like everyone else!
Him... Ummm... Huh... Well... Umm. Hangs up
Bahahahahaha you LOVE this don’t you hehe
Jiggle around??? XD
Ehhh, sometimes. 😅
Lol, I know right? You can't hear that and not laugh. I did that one to a second one too, and he went dead silent. I started telling them that they deserve better than their parasitic employer too. Next, I plan to teach them that the "deceased" button can stop calls better than the "do not call", and ask them to do it for me. When I was at a call center, I used that button all the time with living people. 😂
Lollll
I miss having a man call me beautiful.
(That’s not a flirt, just a comment. Nothing romantic there. I just feel a longing I haven’t felt in a long time…)
That one makes sense. You just really need someone on your level, and that can be hard to get... That sort of longing... Maybe I have it too... I don't feel like much of a hottie anymore though.
This isn't a flirt either, but you definitely are on the inside.
Hottie?
Inside of what?
Oh. Wow I read that wrong XD I thought you meant I was an insider. Like, part of your crew, a close friend or something :)
Thank you <3
Lol, you are that too.
Oooooh cool! :D
I wish that I could believe in anything good...
Hm?
I dunno... I just wish I could feel secure. I wish that I could believe that evil would actually get comeuppance and that good would prevail. I feel like it's always going to be up to me, in this life and after.
I could give you the answer, but I know you won’t take it hehe
Can't, not won't. Wish I could, in a way. This is going to sound rough, but I had to free myself from making excuses for God, just like I had to free myself from making excuses for my father. It takes courage to do that, because I knew it was going to feel lonelier, but I'd rather give myself courage to look at an empty throne than stand outside and pretend the kingdom is intact. Still... It hurts, seeing things, and feeling like most things won't get better unless I find a way to help it along.
It’s gonna get worse if you don’t accept it. I’m just saying lol
What's gonna get worse?
Everything.
Nah. I mean, even if I did accept, I would never accept the need to accept.
Huh???
I just don't believe that people should have to believe.
I suppose you’ll find out…
I'd rather suffer for that than stand for it out of fear. Besides, I'm in good company. I refuse to leave behind all the good people who don't believe.
I saw him today :)
Who?
Guy I have a mini crush on <3
Oooh, what happened?
He kinda followed me around a little bit, and his face lit up when he saw me <3
Sounds like he has a crush too if he followed you
Oh he obviously does. He looks for me specifically <3
Heh, nice. Have you talked to him yet?
A little. We don’t really get much time.
I just… idk how I feel about it really
It's probably a good thing. It'll be good if you make it good, which requires boundaries. If you're confident that you can communicate and set those, I think you'll be on the right track.
Wym?
I feel like if you can keep anything that happens within your comfort zone, this could potentially be something good. If you want it to be. 😉
Do I want it to be?
I dunno. If I know you as well as I think I might... Possibly yes, but not all at once.
Hmm do tell.
It's things that you want, but guys are super hard to trust for a multitude of reasons
Yeah… I just like it being mutual I guess
That's important, it should always be mutual
It hasn’t been mutual for a long time…
Mutual is really hard to find. Even most functional relationships often don't have much of it...
That doesn't mean that it's not worth seeking though, quite the contrary.
But he’s not the kind of guy I can see myself with.
Why not?
Gives a “not super educated” vibe, he’s not a Christian… idk. Something.
Heh, whatcha mean by that vibe? That could be really bad or not so bad. And do you know that he's not a Christian?
Idk, he just does. I want a man who reads.
Really and? How?
You can just tell.
Hm, maybe he'll surprise you. Then again, if your gut doesn't feel right about it, that's another thing altogether.
Wanting a man who reads, that's legit. What I meant is though is that "uneducated" is really bad when it's ignorance. Otherwise idk
And how can you just tell in his case? I know you're probably right, but I'm genuinely curious on this one.
Can we vow to each other to stop overeating on Saturday? Together, as an accountability team? <3
Sure. Saturday evening probably. 😅 Im gonna be so hungry after work tomorrow. But that's a good idea. ❤️
I figured skipping today would be wise, because of the holiday hehe
Lol, true.
I'm not celebrating it this year. At all.
Same. I never do. Lol
Lol, I used to watch fireworks shows .. the funnest time is when i went with my friend's family and we were having a free-for-all war with bottle rockets and firecrackers. I also repurposed a pbc pipe to use as a grenade launcher for festival balls. 😁 Extremely dangerous and horribly irresponsible things, but it was fun.
So guess what????
What's that?
Check my last post :)
Which forum is it in?
General I think
Was it the overeating one?
Mhmm
Rightio. I've failed for the day 😅 I got dragged to a buffet again... But Ima exercise and include some veggies tonight
I overate a little for lunch, but stopped when full at breakfast :)
I’m so worn out, Tor…
Why so worn out?
I pushed myself too hard at work… Did too much. Stressed myself out for no reason. :(
I do that a lot too
Enough to know better 😅. It catches up...
I don’t understand what the last post means.
I work myself to exhaustion a lot. I mean, I'm trying to make time for work, learning languages, reading, writing, eating well/cooking, guinea pig time, yoga, kendo, strength training, jogging with my dog, and video games. And then some other stuff too!
Why?
I'm a restless warrior. I dunno, sometimes I chill, but usually I just want to sharpen myself. Keep expanding my horizons, make myself more interesting. I think I've grown more as a person in the past 2 years than the 36 before it. 😅
Well, now i know how old you are. ;)
Heheh, true. 😅 My birthday is coming up too. I can't wait. Authentic German food and beer. We'll see if it'll be my only drink this year or not... I've been sober this entire year. I'm hoping that reverses what was going on...
Hey. Do you HAVE to drink on your birthday? It might tip you to the other side…
I'm not worried about that... I struggle occasionally, but then I don't. I've proven capable of staying sober... I just want to live a little. I have my doctor's appointment in two days to see how my body is doing after this... I'll know sometime this week I think.
Give me updates.
I just don’t want you to succumb, yk?
Will do. And I get that. 😊❤️. I'd much rather be able to keep active and not feel so tired all the time... I'll be able to remember that now at least. I think it'll be enough to keep me from having much
Saw him today. Crush mostly gone.
Why'd he lose his appeal?
A mix of things… I feel little towards him. I’ve heard a negative way he acted towards someone. And today I heard him say something else, which, though innocuous, coupled with the other thing, gives me pause and reason to believe he may have anger issues.
Why does EVERY MAN HAVE ANGER ISSUES????
What was said? You don't have to share if you don't want, just curious. Your reasoning makes a lot of sense.
Ugh, I wish I could say I was better. I inherited my dad's temper. And by the time I learned to overcome that, I had big outside issues to be angry about. As one of my therapists said, I'm "big mad". Too much injustice. That and I'm kinda moody in person. 😅 Sassy too. I don't know if all guys have those excuses though. I'm not trying to use them as excuses either... I just don't want to scare anyone with my anger anymore.
He got mad at someone, then said something about himself which made me think he’d be easily upset.
You’d hurt me, too. :(
That makes sense. Maybe it's better not to be with him. Sorry to hear that.
I'd hope not... I would feel so bad if I did
Can’t find nobody else.
Men are all the same.
We have some commonalities 😅 but totally not. Me, for example... I don't necessarily have a type! I can be attracted to most girls on some levels, but it's intelligence and humor and attitude... Stuff like that attracts me the most. I think a lot of guys claim something like the latter, but I know mine is genuine.
What would you change about men if you could?
I always thought I preferred white guys, kept dating mostly non-white. So go figure lol
Definitely removing their tendency to anger.
Lol, makes sense. I... Might have a weakness for non-white girls. It might be just the added fascination in cultures different than what I grew up in... It might be more than that too. But I'm a white guy, so I've definitey had more options for white girls.
That makes sense. I think it's important for us to hone reasonability and calmness. Men's anger can be scary.
If there's one thing I could change about girls, it would be their tendency to talk maliciously behind people's backs.
I think a lot of guys do. It’s like an exotic kinda thing?
I was just telling a friend… When a guy goes quiet when he’s angry, it’s scarier than him lashing out.
We do tend to do that…