Borderline personality support, wanting a long term support
Hi everyone, I have borderline personality disorder and am struggling with it more and more. I'm desperately looking for someone I can talk to regularly and relate to. I'm 22 and trying to navigate healthy relationships better. I'd love to have someone I can share my experience with and talk to who understands and relates
@jazbas
Hi, I'd be happy to be a long-term listener for you.
If you're interested, feel free to send me a PM and we can figure out scheduling/boundaries/etc.
Also a BPD suffering individual with a track record of poor mental health, but I doing everything I can to turn my life around, I was once a alcoholic who lived in a squat but now I have my own home, a family of 2 boys and a partner who also has BPD, and we have done many thing to better ourselves not only for us but for out family to, if I can help in anyway, or you have any questions for me than im happy to help out with my 7 years of experience in this area, I hope you ok and feel free to ask me anything and I hope I will be able to help you if you ever want to talk :)
Hey, I’m also looking to make friends with people who understand the struggles of gaining & maintaining relationships. I would like to have someone that I can talk to randomly, who understands my fleeting frustrations and excitements. ????
I was diagnosed with BPD in 2007, I believe. I researched it through the years, but didn't realize the affect it truly has on my life and my relationships. The past couple years have been eye opening to me and open to learn as much as I can to better myself and my relationships.
@marissa6
Hi, welcome to 7 Cups! 💜 That sounds like a positive development that over the past couple years you've been learning more about how your BPD is affecting things and exploring different ways of trying to improve things.
Hey all
i haven’t been officially diagnosed but I do believe I have some type of disorder due to trauma in my life. Constantly.
I push away a LOT of people and family. And always find myself in arguments. Even when I’m asserting boundaries people get upset with me. I feel it’s constant and I just can’t keep people around
@determinedPlum6942
That's a hard experience to feel like with whatever you do, it results in conflicts or people getting upset 💜