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Borderline personality support, wanting a long term support

User Profile: jazbas
jazbas July 27th, 2021

Hi everyone, I have borderline personality disorder and am struggling with it more and more. I'm desperately looking for someone I can talk to regularly and relate to. I'm 22 and trying to navigate healthy relationships better. I'd love to have someone I can share my experience with and talk to who understands and relates

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic July 27th, 2021

@jazbas

Hi, I'd be happy to be a long-term listener for you. Slightly smiling If you're interested, feel free to send me a PM and we can figure out scheduling/boundaries/etc.

User Profile: SunshineWard269
SunshineWard269 August 17th, 2021

Also a BPD suffering individual with a track record of poor mental health, but I doing everything I can to turn my life around, I was once a alcoholic who lived in a squat but now I have my own home, a family of 2 boys and a partner who also has BPD, and we have done many thing to better ourselves not only for us but for out family to, if I can help in anyway, or you have any questions for me than im happy to help out with my 7 years of experience in this area, I hope you ok and feel free to ask me anything and I hope I will be able to help you if you ever want to talk :)

User Profile: FranklyAvalon
FranklyAvalon August 20th, 2021

Hey, I’m also looking to make friends with people who understand the struggles of gaining & maintaining relationships. I would like to have someone that I can talk to randomly, who understands my fleeting frustrations and excitements. ????

User Profile: marissa6
marissa6 November 30th, 2021

I was diagnosed with BPD in 2007, I believe. I researched it through the years, but didn't realize the affect it truly has on my life and my relationships. The past couple years have been eye opening to me and open to learn as much as I can to better myself and my relationships.

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic December 3rd, 2021

@marissa6

Hi, welcome to 7 Cups! 💜 That sounds like a positive development that over the past couple years you've been learning more about how your BPD is affecting things and exploring different ways of trying to improve things.

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User Profile: determinedPlum6942
determinedPlum6942 December 5th, 2021

Hey all


i haven’t been officially diagnosed but I do believe I have some type of disorder due to trauma in my life. Constantly.


I push away a LOT of people and family. And always find myself in arguments. Even when I’m asserting boundaries people get upset with me. I feel it’s constant and I just can’t keep people around

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic December 6th, 2021

@determinedPlum6942

That's a hard experience to feel like with whatever you do, it results in conflicts or people getting upset 💜

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