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Dealing with death

User Profile: cwheelxh
cwheelxh December 11th, 2022

How do I deal with losing my fiancee to suicide on Thanksgiving this year when I have BPD and I feel like my life is over when his was.

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy December 11th, 2022

I'm sorry for your loss. This must be so hard. My sincere condolences to you.


I think with death we have to understand that it'll come to all of us. It's a fact that life is transient. Yet people who go away to the next world continue to live in our hearts.


I lost my Aunt recently and my family and I continue to think of her all the time. Sometimes it makes us sad and sometimes remembering her brings joy. I'd say to you to express your feelings to whoever you feel comfortable talking to, or on this app. Sharing really helps you feel lighter.


Other than that there is no solution as such that I'm aware of to deal with this kind of grief. With time it begins to feel easier.