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User Profile: sociableorange9914
sociableorange9914 April 13th, 2019

I am self diagnosing my self with bpd. Why? Every time I have gone to the doc. They dont think anything's wrong. My whole life would tell you other wise. I am an introvert and I want more from life but I am so scared.

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User Profile: LavenderFlower
LavenderFlower April 18th, 2019

@sociableorange9914

Hey there Orange! 😃 Welcome to the community! We are all here to support you 💖 Doctors are often hesitant to diagnose BPD because it is a very serious mental health illness. It can feel very scary, upsetting, and frustrating when you feel like you have a disorder, only to be told nothing is wrong by a doctor. May I ask why you feel like you have BPD?

User Profile: ec2000
ec2000 April 18th, 2019

@sociableorange9914

Hey,

I myself haven't been officially diagnosed with bpd but I 100% know that I have it. All the mental health professionals have diagnosed me with depression which I know that I have as I have been suffering from it for 4 years now. Honestly, didnt know what was bpd until I recentley got told that I could have it as all of the symptons describe me. Haven't yet brought it up with a doctor which I am slightly afraid to do. Any advice?

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User Profile: LavenderFlower
LavenderFlower April 18th, 2019

@ec2000

Hey there EC 😃 In my experience, BPD is something that isn't really spoken about by professionals, and many professionals are hesitant to diagnose it. If you believe that you have it, it's something you might consider bringing up with your professional. If you choose not to, they may never bring it up. On the other hand, if you choose to bring it up, they may be able to diagnose you and/or offer treatment for your symptoms 💖

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User Profile: ec2000
ec2000 April 18th, 2019

@LavenderFlower

Hey there,

Thank you for the advice. Maybe if I bring it up to a doctor than I will be able to get the help that I need as I feel like I'm constantly going around in circles.

A quick question: Is bpd caused by a traumatic experience?

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User Profile: LavenderFlower
LavenderFlower April 18th, 2019

@ec2000

Hey there EC 💖 According to most professionals, BPD doesn't have a clear cause, but there are some risk factors associated with BPD, such as genes, environment, and biological factors.

You can read more about the specific risk factors here: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/causes/

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User Profile: ec2000
ec2000 April 20th, 2019

@LavenderFlower

Hey x

Thank you for the useful information and I hope that if I do get diagnosed with bpd that I will be able to cope and function efficiently in everyday life. At the moment, my mental health is affecting how I function and also my relationships with friends and family, but I'm optimistic that it will improve :)

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