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i made everyone hate me

User Profile: quickwittedTortoise3831
quickwittedTortoise3831 February 1st, 2021

idk i just hurt all of my friends said mean things and admitted to backstabbing them to make them hate me and i’m not even mad but ik i’m going to freak out later

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User Profile: insecure1992
insecure1992 February 1st, 2021

Too much for an apology to fix? Hope you are okay

User Profile: StarlitSky4762
StarlitSky4762 February 2nd, 2021

@quickwittedTortoise3831 It's not easy to control impulses to say things to people when you're feeling strong emotions. I'm sorry that this happened. Thank you for sharing with the community.

User Profile: frankcastles
frankcastles February 2nd, 2021

im sorry this happened, it can be hard to control your words once impulse takes over. if you can, try to apologise and if you feel up to it, explain to them why it happened. I've done this before too, and despite how we feel in the moment, it has to be of note that it doesnt excuse the behaviour. do you mind me asking if you have any outlets for when this sort of impulse arises? one of mine is to type everything I want to say into my notes app, doesnt have to be formal, i include the swears and all, then scribble all over it using the pen. it's a vent, without hurting anyone and no one has to know but you

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User Profile: StarlitSky4762
StarlitSky4762 February 2nd, 2021

@frankcastles Thank you for sharing! That's a great idea!

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