Do I have it?
I was incredibly shy growing up. 7th and 8th grade, I don't think I ever spoke to anyone at school one time. I flunked out of college partly because I couldn't ask tutors for help or go to group projects. I couldn't really talk to girls and then I married the first girl I met online when I was 23. I found a data entry job at 27 that has no social aspect and that's been great for me.
@Trying84081
Hi, welcome to 7 Cups. 💜
I'd only be speculating if I were to try to weigh in whether you do or don't have anything. It might be worth talking to a licensed mental health professional if you wanted to get a diagnosis for something (e.g. avoidant personality disorder, social anxiety, etc.) and they'd hopefully also be able to help with working through it if it's still causing problems.
That sounds great that you found a job that's a comfortable fit. 👍 And also sounds like you found someone that you get along with well enough that you were willing to marry them. 💜
