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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: May 14th - May 16th

User Profile: Jili
Jili May 14th, 2021

Happy Friday lovely PD Support Community,

How are you feeling today?

How is the weather at your place?

How is your week so far?

I would love to hear from you, but there is no pressure to answer these questions. You are very welcome to simply say hi or share whatever else is on your mind. Or just grab a hug. We are happy to have you here no matter what, this is a safe space for all of you.

Much love from Forum Supporter,

Paradise

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 14th, 2021

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User Profile: mathetmess
mathetmess May 14th, 2021

@competentParadise6344

Feeling mostly productive, a little bit disappointed in work around me, but such happens. But, I got done many things and so I am in a decent place for the upcoming weekend.

Weather … is warm, but not as warm as elsewhere. I hear it is 30C in Eastern Europe today - yuck! I wish it were cooler than 20C here, but it's not as bad as it could be.

The week has been curious indeed. The schedulers changed our plans for this week so that we did TWR instead of MTW. It was an interesting experience, and fun to try to change, but then confusing at the end of the week as we then seem to have a day after Thursday before Friday.

Now, mostly it's tiring but done and accomplished. I most appreciate the part where you thoughtfully and considerately said "you don't need to do this". That was great. Thank you for the care and respect.

- Jeff (is my name)

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 14th, 2021

@mathetmess

Thank you for sharing! Great to have you here, Jeff

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User Profile: raininglillies13
raininglillies13 May 15th, 2021

@competentParadise6344

How are you feeling today? I'm good today! excited it's friday because I get to spend more time with my husband on the weekends :)

How is the weather at your place? The weather right now is dark and it wants to rain.. but isn't yet. I wish it would!

How is your week so far? My week so far is great. I bought a signed cd by one of my favorite artists and I'm stressing a little less !

Thanks! & How about you??

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User Profile: mathetmess
mathetmess May 15th, 2021

@raininglillies13

Hooray for CDs lowering stress … and hooray for physical music media! I hope that the rain found you.

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User Profile: raininglillies13
raininglillies13 May 15th, 2021

@mathetmess

Yesss music is a big help for sure!! thank you!!!!! :) Hope you have a great day!

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User Profile: mathetmess
mathetmess May 15th, 2021

@raininglillies13

Hooray for yes music! (oh that isn't what you meant? - my ID was "mathetyes" before a bad few days where it became "mathetmess")

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User Profile: raininglillies13
raininglillies13 May 17th, 2021

@mathetmess

Yes being able to have a physical copy of a cd you love is always awesome. I'm sorry to hear you had a rough couple days! hope things get better for ya soon!!!!

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 15th, 2021

@raininglillies13

That's great to hear raining!

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User Profile: raininglillies13
raininglillies13 May 17th, 2021

@competentParadise6344

It is! i love the sound of it and how it just makes everything seem clean.

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User Profile: BeyVT
BeyVT May 15th, 2021

Greetings, all! Weather here in the Lake Champlain Valley is finally warming...

The week has been somewhat problematic, i.e., with anxiety/panic, etc. Par for the course, perhaps...

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 16th, 2021

@BeyVT

Good to hear that the weather has been nice heart

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User Profile: twm
twm May 15th, 2021

I guess my week so far is okay. The weather is nice now that it's starting to warm up a bit. But I'm feeling kind of frustrated and confused because I just finished the last of a set of therapy sessions and the end result was just a list of other providers who might be able to help and a referral to a group therapy thing for men with BPD, except I was never evaluated for BPD and I don't really score highly on any of the assessments. And I was told that I need to keep an open mind and not be resistant to therapy. So maybe it's my fault or something. Idk...

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 17th, 2021

@twm

Glad to hear that your week has been good. Sending you hugs if you want them

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 May 16th, 2021

@competentParadise6344

1. How are you feeling today?

Strange, depressed, unsure, afraid

2. How is the weather at your place?

It was nice but I didn't enjoy it until I meditated in my bedroom and the setting sun warmed me through the windows.

3. How is your week so far?

My week so far sucks. I just found out yesterday that I either need to quit my job or be disqualified from a program that I have been in for years. My part-time jobs pushes me over the limit of how much I can make. It’s my first paying job in years. I’m so depressed.

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User Profile: mathetmess
mathetmess May 16th, 2021

@purpleTree4652

I understand that you face difficult choices. Life has many unfortunate constraints. As a university professor, I might have ideas, if you're looking for them. Best wishes.

User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 16th, 2021

@purpleTree4652

Sending you lots of hugs if you want them heart

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User Profile: libbychii
libbychii May 16th, 2021

I'm feeling very tired today but that is normal for me. The weather seems cloudy today im not sure if it will rain but I like rain so I hope! My week has been not the best but also not the worse I guess 😅 I hope you are feeling okay too 💗

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User Profile: Jili
Jili OP May 17th, 2021

@libbychii

Sending you hugs if you want them heart

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