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Basically the reason why I suffer from anxiety & panic attacks is from being molested from the ages of 6 to 8 years old. My aunt's ex husband molested me. And my dad was an alcoholic and beat me from the ages of 10 to 18 years old. Life has been super hard and I could really use a hug from anyone out there that's willing to give me a hug. Thanks everyone and I'm so glad I found this place.
*Hugs real tightly*
Hugs my dear
Oh you poor thing! CLUTCHING TIGHT HUGGG!!
Hugs xxxxxx
Hug hug hugssss! Good job on reaching out.
You deserve more than a hug, girl. We support you! :))) Oh and, //hugs real tightly
I've been struggling with negative thinking for thpast weeks. Keep thinking if the man I thought cared deeply for me actually did since he hasn't ever contacted me again since we stopped seeing each other (and he had said we would always care for each other). I want to believe love was real... I love him and still care. Need a hug from someone who cares...
*hugs* *hugs again* It's great that you're here and actively seeking comfort instead of breaking down about it all by your lonesome. Sometimes love is cruel like that, it takes as much as it gives. And sometimes it just takes. Maybe they were sweet nothings because you were a beautiful girl and he was trying his everything including the bittersweet fake to woo you, thinking just himself wasn't good enough. Maybe the feelings died like ashes. Maybe he's struggling on something unrelated. Maybe he's just busy. Maybe something went wrong, there's a misunderstanding. Maybe he's just a prick and not worthy of your attention afterall. Maybe he's guilty about something and not ready to own up to his beloved other just yet. Maybe you fought and didn't realise it.Maybe he's swelling in the ego of being noticed. Maybe nothing went wrong and he's just awkward with making the break. Maybe, could be but what COULDN'T be?
Feel better this night. An uncertain question with an unknown answer is always a probability of good, good hope. Believe in yourself who 'earned' him. Believe in the guy who 'earned' you. We are here if it really is a fully dead phoenix.
Lots of warm, snuggle hugs to everyone💗💗💗💗
Hugs to all of you kind people!
Really needing hugs tonight. Lost my grandma to cancer in September. Missing her a lot tonight.
I think the yellow rose means peace. Peace to your Grandma and hugs to you x
Asking for a hug has always been awkward for me, but I really could use one. *open arms*
*grabs arms and smothers*
Good morning, good evening, good night and good day wherever you are and from everywhere else in the world too. Least of all this NZ kiwi who should really be bidding a really, really late good night. May your day be or have gotten better. Know we're here if you need to talk. Whatever it is that plagues you, let it be wind. Less unpleasant when it finally does change direction. Not that one can't love wind. I love it myself. But it can draw blood with your own hair and clothes if too strong. Like a challenge. You are changing, you are making change? Something is happening and you need to, will ride it out. Be strong and you will be stronger yet by the end of it. All prayers for you. All hugs for you.
And people will always deserve for a hug, what's a little bit of awkward? *double* because we are the same. One difference: I don't ask for it. I just give it or just do it. <3
The standards for beauty suck. All this negative thinking about the way I look is making me fall deeper into a slump.. Hug, please?? :(
Hum. Didn't 'reply' to the correct post.
*outline hug*
How do you look? Let's hug you in full paragraphs *hugs outline for now* :D Beauty is a dependent judgement. The african voice that is the talent in talent shows today were once 'beastial'. Olden day westerners liked the plump with beauty spots (I'll admit I like a clear face more... *sound of something dropping awkwardly*). Asians standardised lighter skin, long noses. Models are okay flat. It is manly to have more chest hair. There were three main body types (less to do with torso, more ratio of fingers and feet), now there are a million and we all keep living no matter what sort we actually are or could be.
The americans are now 'american looking' rather than spanish (first group), european, english, etc. Once upon a time, to simply have different facial features (any of the groups mentioned above) was to be condemened. Once upon a time, those were devils, named and colored both with obscenity. All this faded.There is fashion and surgery to become permanently more oddly dressed, oddly colored people, piercings, markings. All this is specific to individual concept.
Beauty is a tattoo. Semi-permanent but if you really wanted to change it, you could. As it is though, it is only a fad, an idea. As long as you are content and think it is beautiful, you and your body forever will be.
