Sexual abuse
Hi, three months ago I got sexually abuse by my best friend, I feel like nobody understands me and weirdly I really miss him
@secretAcres1847
I am sorry to hear that you were abused. I don't think there's anything wrong with missing him as he was originally your best friend - it's hard to switch off your feelings for someone. Maybe you would benefit from speaking to a listener about what happened? I hope you're doing okay. ♥
@secretAcres1847 hey there. I am truly sorry that you had to experience that and can t even imagine how it must be to cope with this. You say, that you weirdly miss him - to be honest, that is not weird. Really often we still miss our abusers because we know they also have good sites and try to see only the good in them. I am sure you also had good memories together and am sure your (ex-)best friend has some good qualities as well! But it is really important for ourselves to stay away from people who are no good for us and treat us badly. And you do not deserve to be treated this way at all.
If you d like to talk a bit more about this, you can surely connect yourself with a listener or also check out our Relationship & Friendship Community (click on it!) or the Traumatic Experiences Community. At the moment, we have an awareness event in there about teen (dating) violence. Your voice matters and we are here to support you through it.