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2 Ways To Deal With Feelings of Irritability and Anger

User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 September 3rd, 2022

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1. Have you been sticking to a regular sleep schedule?

If you find yourself feeling irritable, angry, or overly sensitive, take a moment to reflect on how you have been sleeping over the past few weeks. Have you been waking up in the middle of the night? Have you been sleeping lightly? Have you experienced recurring bad dreams or nightmares? Do you have pain in your body that is keeping you up? Have you been looking at your phone late at night?

If so, this may explain your elevated anger response. When we miss out on our sleep, our minds and bodies don’t have time to reset correctly.

You are probably aware of some of the things you can do to get a better night’s sleep, but I’ll mention them again:

  • Exercise can be helpful, especially vigorous exercise. (That said, overexercising has been linked to insomnia.)
  • Reducing screen time in favor of being outside can also improve sleep quality.
  • Having an evening wind-down routine can help, whether that’s doing some light stretching or meditation before bed, journaling or sketching, or taking a relaxing bath.
  • For people struggling with nightmares or bad dreams, sleeping with a comfort object can help. You may also try journaling your dreams and changing the negative endings to positive ones.

2. Do you have the sensation that you are rushing through life?

Sometimes we feel like we know exactly where we want to be, but because we aren’t there yet, we try to rush the process. This brings about a nagging sense of irritability and impatience—and can even lead to outbursts of anger.

If you find yourself feeling this way, it’s important to do things that keep you tethered to the present. Mindfulness exercises can help. Doing things that shift your focus from your internal thoughts and sensations to external stimuli (i.e., playing sports, socializing, volunteering, etc.) can also help."

Read the complete article available at Psychology Today!

Reflection:

What are some of the ways that help you to deal with anger and irritability?

#Anger #Irritability #Sleep #Goals #EmotionalRegulation

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath September 3rd, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

Thanks for this post

Listening to music helps at times :)

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User Profile: globalBraid3744
globalBraid3744 September 3rd, 2022

@Optimisticempath

The same for me! Sometimes I get irritated when I lack sleep but music can usually lift my mood. What music do you listen to?

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP September 4th, 2022

@globalBraid3744 That's great to hear. What are ur faves right now? I'm obsessed with little freak by Harry styles, its beautifully melancholic.

User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath September 4th, 2022

@globalBraid3744 @comfortableNight4463

Oh nothing specific actually, anything that goes with the mood 😅

How about you both? Any favorites??

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User Profile: globalBraid3744
globalBraid3744 September 6th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

My favorite music to listen to now is instrumental because I tend to feel tired after work and this kind of music makes me relaxed :) Little Freak is an amazing song, I love it!!

@Optimisticempath

I can relate to what you are saying! I also like so many music genres depending on my mood. What song did you listen to today?

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP September 4th, 2022

@Optimisticempath That's great! Music always helps. What are your current faves?

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 September 4th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463 When I am feeling irritable, I always like to take a nap and recharge. It's important I don't react to anything when I'm angry because I can say things I don't mean 😔 Thank you for this article!

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP September 4th, 2022

@fruityPond7887 This is so true. When we're angry, we can be so mean without thinking. This is a great way of coping. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 September 4th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463 Thank you for your validation ❤️ I appreciate your understanding!

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comfortableNight4463 OP September 5th, 2022

@fruityPond7887 You're most welcome! Take care.

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User Profile: beautifulalamort
beautifulalamort September 6th, 2022

@comfortableNight4463

that's such a helpful post also for me playing with my cats and praying helps.

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User Profile: comfortableNight4463
comfortableNight4463 OP September 9th, 2022

@beautifulalamort That's great! I'm glad they help. Thanks for sharing.

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