Improve Your Mood—Stay Off Social Media for a While
"Taking as little as seven days off could boost your mood. In one study, adults who used social media daily—for eight hours a week, on average—reported less depression and anxiety after going cold turkey for seven days. When they returned from their break, they spent only 21 minutes a week scrolling, freeing up hours for other activities.
It’s okay to take a break even if you know you’ll be coming back. “Of course, social media is a part of life and for many people, it’s an indispensable part of who they are and how they interact with others. But if you are spending hours each week scrolling and you feel it is negatively impacting you, it could be worth cutting down on your usage to see if it helps,” said lead researcher psychologist Jeff Lambert from the University of Bath, in Great Britain.
How to do a social media “detox”
Go on a social media detox while you’re on vacation or have a friend in town or a big work project. When your distraction ends, think of other ways to meet the needs that social media has filled. Ask yourself when and why you start scrolling.
- If you reach for your phone to help you wind down, you may have let other relaxations dwindle. Is there any activity you used to love that you’ve dropped?
- Do you always look at Instagram while waiting in line or traveling? Set up your phone so music, news sites, or podcasts are easy to reach.
- Especially if you work remotely or live alone, you may use social media to connect. But again, you may have let other social outlets decline. You can go to a local park or café and start a conversation with someone who looks friendly. To meet new people, attend events posted on Meetup.com, volunteer, join a religious group, or take a class.
- Friendships are an important part of happiness, and they need maintenance. Call friends or family members and set up a video or in-person date. You can invite them to dinner or drinks or offer to host in your home.
- Are you dating? Dating sites can be addictive and depressing. Put your profile on hold and go to in-person events instead.
- Do you grab the phone when you’re bored at home? You might be more stimulated by a book, home improvement project, or artsy movie. Make a new recipe. For the longer term, you may need to start planning entertainment. Buy tickets for live music, a play, or a museum. You can also go see what’s available that night.
Making social media work for you
When you return after your break, monitor how social media affects you and note when your anxiety or envy sets in.
- Do you cringe when you see photos of yourself or an ex? Take those photos down.
- Do some people’s feeds make you feel inferior, envious, or angry? Unfollow them.
- Set a good example. Be authentic. Use the “hide likes” features if you tend to obsess over likes.
- If you’re dating online, try changing parameters like age or distance to shake things up. If you never write first, try it. Switch to video calls or meetings more quickly. Be honest with yourself: What are you actually looking for and is that goal realistic?
- Use social media to expand, develop new interests, or reconnect with old friends and family."
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Reflection:
How long do you usually spend on social media? How does it make you feel?
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@comfortableNight4463
Social media detox can be really helpful, I agree. I guess much of my time is compensated in 7 cups, so I don't use social media too often haha, I'm now and forever working on a balance between on and off here, and in general to reduce my screen time. Wish me luck. XD
Thanks for sharing, Night, topics like these are relevant always, and can use many many reminders with. ❤
